Friday, 16 September 2016

Outfit #5: Hello, I'm back!

Hello,

I'm not dead, I just haven't kept up with the blog very well ... oops :) Between moving house and getting sick multiple times I just didn't feel up to posting anything, despite the fact that I had this post all written and ready to go probably three weeks ago. Now I really want to repeat this outfit!



You know what's great about a maxi skirt? It would take a tornado to be indecently exposed in this. Take that, f*#@% wind! 


And another one where you can actually see my top:




      Top   -   H&M
Denim Shirt   -   New Look
                                                              Skirt   -   Boohoo (also looks really cool in white!)
 Shoes   -   Bhs
                                                      Bag   -   Bought at TKMaxx, label unknown


When you don't know what to do with your hands... I prefer this outfit sans denim shirt, but it was just too cold to go out without it.


Here's a close-up of the beautiful detail on this top: 


I know, it gets those weird creases around the chest area - I'm not really sure if it's due to the bra I'm wearing or if that's just a design flaw. I don't mind it too much, and it actually looks worse in the picture than it really is I think. Don't let that spoil this beautiful top for you :) 

Here's a few more really nice maxi skirts:



Not really my colour, but I love the extra layer at the front.

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I know it's not a maxi skirt, but it's beautiful so I'm sneaking it into this list ;)

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I love anything red. How beautiful is this one?

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This one is a bit expensive, but the colour is gorgeous, and the waistband is very unique. I wish I hadn't found this, because now I'm very tempted to buy it haha.

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Thanks for reading,

Kat










Tuesday, 30 August 2016

Book Spotlight: 'The Diary of a Provincial Lady' by E.M. Delafield

Hello there :)

I'm finally sharing a long-overdue review of 'The Diary of a Provincial Lady' with you guys. Spoiler alert: I loved this book. Technically, this isn't really one book, but it's four books now all combined in one volume: The Diary of a Provincial Lady, The Provincial Lady Goes Further, The Provincial Lady in America and The Provincial Lady in Wartime. They were published a few years apart (as you can see below) between 1930 and 1940.

Published 1930 (The Diary of a Provincial Lady), 1932 (The Provincial Lady Goes Further), 1934 (The Provincial Lady in America) and 1940 (The Provincial Lady in Wartime) // 3.98 stars on Goodreads

Here are some covers for you...

       

They're all pretty cool, but I think the cover of my book (below) summarises it best :)



The Plot:

The whole book is written in diary style from the point of view of the Provincial Lady, who remains nameless. Obviously this is a crude description, but think of it as a Bridget Jones' Diary-type of novel set in the 1920s/30s.

I decided that the usual *stop reading here to avoid spoilers* section isn't really needed for this book, because there aren't really any big twists and turns. It's all about the small things in life, the little joys and miseries, very wittily depicted. Overall, it's very character-driven and the plot mostly changes between the four books, rather than within each one. The first book introduces us to the Provincial Lady's everyday life in rural Devonshire where she tries to navigate a taciturn husband, annoying neighbours, financial struggles, and, most importantly, needs to keep the staff from quitting. In the next book we learn that the Provincial Lady has now enjoyed some success as a published author (but like her name, it's never revealed what her novel is actually about!), which then takes her on a tour of the United States in book number three. Finally, the action jumps several years forward, and the Provincial Lady now finds herself in London at the start of WWII, trying her best to find some war work ... which is easier said than done.


What I liked:

The prose is really beautiful and makes me wish E.M. Delafield was around to document my life for me. Seriously, even if you're not interested in reading the book fully, just do a page or two if you happen to get your hands on a copy - it's such a pleasure to read. The book is also extremely funny, with a very dry sense of humour. In my opinion, Delafield writes so well that I found the Provincial Lady and her troubles quite relatable, despite the fact that a) this is 2016, and b) I'm not a married mother of two. Who hasn't suffered through mind-blowingly awful conversations, gotten annoyed at their significant other, or tried to navigate some *temporary'* financial difficulties?

Here's an excerpt for you:

"January 22nd - Robert startles me at breakfast by asking if my cold - which he has hitherto ignored - is better. I reply that it has gone. Then why, he asks, do I look like that? Feel that life is wholly unendurable, and decide madly to get a new hat."

I also liked that the Provincial Lady really isn't provincial at all. She may live in the country but she regularly travels to London, writes a book and articles, goes on a public speaking tour to America and is anything but provincial in her views.


What I disliked:

I didn't like the  The Provincial Lady in Wartime as much as its predecessors. It felt a bit repetitive in parts (Mrs. Winter-Gammon reminded a lot of Mrs. Blenkinsop from earlier) and it ended very abruptly. There are a also a few instances throughout the book (mostly during the first section) when French is spoken for a sentence or two, without any translation. Some of the meaning can usually be guessed, but I still found this quite annoying. Obviously this is an issue with the edition I own, not the book itself, but if you're looking to buy this book you might want to watch out for that.

I couldn't really think of any book club questions for this one, so I decided not to force it. If you have any ideas, leave them in the comments section :)


Should you read this book?

I think this book is very funny and beautifully written, but it's not necessarily a page turner with a strong plot. That being said, I think you should read it anyway, and I'm looking forward to re-reading this some day! :)

My rating:

★ ★ ★ ★ ½


4.5 out of 5.0



Thanks for reading,

Kat





Sunday, 21 August 2016

Book Spotlight: "The Past" by Tessa Hadley

Hello dear reader :)

Today's Book Spotlight is about Tessa Hadley's beautiful novel 'The Past'. I've decided to include a link to the Goodreads reviews and average rating to give you an at-a-glance idea of how others enjoyed/ didn't enjoy a book. Additionally, I will also include my own rating at the end of the post from now on. I have to say, I was bit surprised to see 'The Past' receive a rather low rating on Goodreads, because I found it mesmerising, and already look forward to re-reading it (definitely on a summer day, preferably in the English countryside).

Published 2015 // 3.18 stars on Goodreads

Anyway, first of all some covers:

    

And here's the cover I own:


The Plot:

Siblings Alice, Fran, Harriet and Roland visit their grandparents' house every summer. Somewhat isolated in the English countryside, it provides an escape from their ordinary lives, and also ties them to the mother they lost at a young age. Now adults, they bring their own families, problems and desires - Roland is accompanied by his new wife Pilar and his teenage daughter Molly, Alice brings her ex-boyfriend's nineteen year old son Kasim and Fran's young children Ivy and Arthur are running wild. As the holiday goes on, passions grow and not only Kasim and Molly are getting closer, but Harriet finds herself falling for Pilar... 


*stop reading here to avoid spoilers*


The holiday has a melancholy note to it, as it will likely be the last at their grandparents' house. Increasingly falling into disrepair, the house is now in need of costly renovations, which none of the siblings can afford. However, it provides a link to the past, to their mother and grandparents, and Alice indulges in those memories. Pilar, reserved and strikingly beautiful, is a newcomer to the house and the family, and doesn't quite fit in with Roland's sisters. Only Harriet strikes up a friendship with her, and also develops an intense desire for Pilar. Romantically inexperienced and socially inhibited, this unexpected longing becomes Harriet's shameful secret. Meanwhile, Ivy and Arthur discover an abandoned farm house, complete with a dog's corpse inside. Fearful and intrigued at the same time, this becomes their secret, and the two regularly return. Kasim faces a straight-forward problem: How (and where) to seduce Molly? He settles on the abandoned farm house, and decides to clean it out to create a lover's nest. When he finds the dog's body, he burns it, thus unceremoniously destroying Ivy and Arthur's secret. Another secret comes to light when Harriet makes an impulsive decision to express her feelings to Pilar. This goes disastrously wrong and an outraged Pilar immediately leaves with Roland. Convinced that she has ruined her life, Harriet dramatically decides to await death lying in a field, until discovered and safely returned home by Alice. The same night, Molly and Kasim fail to return to the house, which sparks a search by Alice, Fran and the children the next day. Once they find them, it becomes clear that Kasim and Molly have spent the night together at the abandoned farm house. At the end of the book Harriet receives a postcard from Pilar in which she comments on some family problems she had previously discussed with Harriet.

The present is broken up with a sequence from the past, in which Hadley describes how the siblings' mother Jill returns to her parents' home in a bid to separate from her adulterous husband Tom. Three of her kids in tow (Harriet, Roland and Alice), she indulges in a fantasy of setting up home in the remote countryside, but in the end returns to Tom and has a fourth child (Fran, who we now know is likely not Tom's daughter). In the present, we learn that Jill has passed away, thus making the grandparents' house even more meaningful by its connection to the mother they all lost too soon.

It seems to me that at the end, almost all secrets are out in the open - Kasim and Molly have become lovers, Harriet's desire for Pilar is no longer secret and she opens up to her sisters, and Ivy and Arthur are no longer the only ones who knew about the dead dog in the abandoned farmhouse. The only secret that remains open only to us readers is that of Fran's true parentage. After Hadley tells us about Jill and the estate agent, it seems likely that he is her true father, which is again alluded to at the end of the book.

What I liked:

The prose is really beautiful, and I found this book a joy to read - I think it would be an especially delightful novel to read on a summer day, so get this book before August is over! The characters were also well described and easily came to life for me, particularly Pilar, Kasim and Ivy. Overall, I think that this is a complex and multi-layered book, and I'm not sure I understand the full significance of what I've read. Those are the best kind of novels though, in my opinion, because you can look forward to reading them again and again, and always uncovering a little bit more each time.

What I disliked:


I feel very conflicted about Harriet's character. She seems so painfully immature and inhibited where romance, self-esteem and her identity and self-expression are concerned, that I both pitied her and found her passages uncomfortable to read. On a more technical note, the way in which dialogue is displayed in the book took me a little while to get used to, as dashes, rather than quotation marks or italics, are used to separate speech from the narrative voice. I thought Roland and Fran got a little less attention than their siblings in the plot, and I would have enjoyed hearing a bit more from/ about them.


I didn't exactly dislike this, but there was a lot going on in this novel: The meaning of the house to the siblings, Kasim and Molly's relationship, Ivy and Arthur's discovery and rituals, Harriets crush, Pilar's arrival among the siblings, the siblings' mother Jill's death and so on. This novel seems to have so many layers that I'm finding it difficult to write a coherent review and tell you what happened and what I thought of it overall - one of the reasons why I definitely want to read this beautiful novel again. One thing that I thought a little bit unrealistic was Kasim's willingness to spend a holiday with his father's ex-girlfriend's family. Hadley writes that he only agrees to get some time away from his mother, but it still seems a little bit strange to me that a nineteen year old guy would agree to spend three weeks in a remote country house with adults who are mostly strangers to him. Still, stranger things have happened I guess.

If I had a book club, these would be my questions:


  • Why did Pilar send that postcard to Harriet at the end of the book? Was it a narcissistic assumption that she would still care about Pilar's life? A cruel way of reminding Harriet or her (Pilar)? Or a means of making amends with Harriet by somewhat 'resuming' a topic they discussed as friends? (I'm drawn to the last explanation. I think that Pilar is socially unskilled when it comes to discussing private/ emotional matters and that this was her reason for choosing to confide in Harriet - who obviously adored her - in the first place. In my opinion, sending her that postcard was a clumsy way of trying to tell Harriet that everything is ok now. This is total speculation of course, but those are my thoughts).
  • Did you like the characters? (I felt that they were all somewhat unlikeable but not to the extent that I hated them or didn't find them relatable. For me, Alice came across as quite annoying, whereas Roland was uninvolved, Kasim was arrogant and Pilar seemed cold. I can't make up my mind about Harriet - she seems painfully immature but I also feel sorry for her).
  • Harriet is convinced that Pilar 'led her on' and thus contributed to Harriet's mistake - do you think she is right? Did Pilar flirt with her? Or did Harriet misinterpret Pilar's behaviour? (I'm not too sure about this. At one stage, Hadley describes Harriet kissing Pilar's hand, which - to my mind - is definitely not normal behaviour among friends (unless done as a joke), and which should/ could have alerted Pilar to Harriet's crush).


  • What significance did the past hold in this book? Why did Hadley include the story of Jill's attempt to leave Tom? (I think on the one hand it signifies the house's importance as a safe haven to return to. On another level, this lets us glimpse into Harriet's childhood during which her mother perceived her as attention-seeking and is rather harsh to her, which I think then inhibited Harriet's willingness to express herself later in life, e.g. romantically or where her appearance is concerned. What do you guys think?).

Should you read this book?

Plot aside, I think Tessa Hadley's writing style is so beautiful that I would recommend giving this book a try just for that alone :) That being said, the story lines are interesting and varied, and I highly recommend it!


My rating:

★ ★ ★ ★ ★
5.0 out of 5.0



Monday, 15 August 2016

Outfit #4: Oh so blue...

Buenos Días!

Hope you are all keeping well! How gorgeous is the print on this dress? I don't think white particularly suits me, but who cares - look at those blue flowers :)


       Dress   -   New Look
Denim Top   -   New Look 
(not the exact one, but how cool is this one?!)
Shoes   -   Bhs
       Bag   -   Parfois
                       Necklace   -   Bought at local market



A closer look at the pattern...




Hello posing efforts...





And a bad photo to show you the top of the dress without the denim shirt on:




The dress has a mesh panel at the front, which is a tiny bit see-through, so it's a good idea not to wear this one with a neon pink bra ;) 



My bf tried his best as a photographer this time, but the one below is the only picture worth keeping haha. Thank god for self-timer! Where are all those long-suffering #instagramhusbands when you need them?! (If you haven't seen the video, give it a watch).




Thanks for reading! May you always have a special person in your life who is willing to take pictures of you (if not, email me and we can commiserate).

Kat






Thursday, 11 August 2016

Book Spotlight: "The Nest" by Cynthia D'Aprix Sweeney

Hello world, 

How have you been?

Today I'm talking about Cynthia D'Aprix Sweeney's debut novel 'The Nest'. I meant to have this review up ages ago, but I didn't get around to finishing it until now (for which planning a move, procrastination and internet issues are all equally to blame), but better late than never, right? :)

                 
                             

A very fancy looking edition on the left (I would have loved this one as a hardcover) and my edition (also pretty cool) on the right.


The Plot:

The Plumb siblings Leo, Jack, Bea and Melody are each set to inherit a large sum of money from their father's trust fund on Melody's 40th birthday. Having lived in anticipation of their inheritance for years, Jack and Melody are sorely counting on it to rescue them from their financial woes. But when Leo gets into a drug-fueled car crash which leaves his beautiful young passenger seriously injured, their mother decides to spend a large part of the siblings' 'Nest' on Leo's recovery...

*stop reading here to avoid spoilers*



Melody is desperate to send her twin daughters to a great college, and had counted on her inheritance to pay for this. Now, the most realistic way forward is to sell her beloved house to fund the children's education, which she finds difficult to accept. Unbeknownst to Melody, her daughters' lives are also becoming more complicated: Nora falls in love with a girl, and Louisa is unsure how her mother will react to her wish to study art in college. Jack, on the other hand, finds himself unable to rectify the serious financial trouble he had long disguised from his partner Walker. When he comes across a valuable piece of art  (originally found in the ruins of the World Trade Center) he sees this as his way out and attempts to broker an illegal deal. Bea used to be a promising new writing talent, but has been unable to finish her novel and even had to repay the advance she received. However, through an inheritance from the partner she lost to illness years ago, she is financially stable enough to forfeit her share of the remainder of the 'Nest', and proposes that Melody and Jack should split whatever money is left between themselves. Inspired by the events around Leo's crash, Bea now writes her book.

Throughout the novel, Leo seems unperturbed by his actions, and makes no serious efforts to repay his siblings' shares of the 'Nest' (despite having hidden away a fortune in an offshore account), instead delaying them with promises. He rekindles his romance with old flame Stephanie for a little while, but never learns of her pregnancy - and the daughter she goes on to have - by fleeing his responsibilities and starting a new life in the Caribbean without making (emotional or financial) amends with his family. Matilda, the young waitress injured in the car crash with Leo, features little throughout the story. She loses her foot and has difficulty adjusting to the situation, but eventually finds support and love in the man who she will later come to marry.

Ultimately, it seems that Leo's accident and subsequent departure brings the rest of his siblings closer together, especially as Stephanie and her new baby are welcomed into the family circle.


What I liked:

I thought (almost all of) the characters were well described and really came to life for me, especially Melody and Stephanie. Overall, I expected to read a book about how money comes between family relationships, but that is not how the plot turned out at all - Leo's accident seems to bring the rest of his siblings closer again, and is surprisingly selfless in her offer to 'donate' her share of the Nest to Jack and Melody.


What I disliked:

The only characters who didn't really come to life for me were the twins Nora and Louisa. I loved the storyline about ditching the SAT classes and Nora's relationship with Simone, but overall I just couldn't really 'picture' them, for lack of a better word. I was also a bit surprised that the siblings' relationship with Leo remained unresolved at the end, lacking a final confrontation (or reconciliation), but this ending is probably more realistic. I found it odd that Matilda did not feature more throughout the story, given that Leo's actions had the most profound effect on her compared to anyone else.

Overall, this book is a bit less dramatic than I would have thought from the outset - no one falls into financial ruin, no heated spats between the siblings, and quite an upbeat ending. I still really enjoyed it, but if you're looking for a more story-driven, action-filled read, this might not be your pick.


If I had a book club, these would be my questions:

  • Were you surprised by Bea's offer to forfeit her share of the money? (I certainly was! Maybe that shows that I'm not as nice of a person haha). 
  • Do you agree with Francie's (the mother) decision to use some of the 'Nest' for Leo, or do you see it as unfair to the other siblings? Would it have been different if Leo's accident had not been 'self-inflicted' through drugs and alcohol? (I think that it would have made a difference to the siblings'  attitude if Leo had required money for a different reason, e.g. if he had received a cancer diagnosis. I don't really find it unfair that Francie used the money for Leo, but I guess it would have been better to consult the siblings?)
  • Is the financial mess Melody and Jack find themselves in Leo's fault, or their own? (I think it's a bit of both - it seems very short-sighted of them to count on that money with such certainty, but then again, who could have anticipated that a large share of it would go missing? I certainly think Leo is to blame for not reimbursing his siblings given his financial status).


Should you read this book?

If you like stories about family relationships, and aren't put off by a more character- rather than story-driven narrative, then I think you will enjoy this.


Monday, 1 August 2016

But is it Lacroix?


Sweetie Darling!


Any Ab Fab fans out there? I went to see the movie a few nights ago and wanted to share my love for this show :)



Before you do anything, take the quiz and figure out which character you are (I got Saffy... oh the shame).


... and now revel in the glory that are Patsy and Eddie's fashion choices.




Throw on a white suit jacket (slightly oversized) with a matching skirt, and hide behind a pair of cat eye sunglasses for discreet daytime drinking. Accessorise with red lippy and a cigarette.



It's all about head-to-toe cohesiveness here, no matter whether you prefer silver athleisure (before athleisure was a thing) or snakeskin. Wear with heels darling.






















(I tried to recreate Edina's outfit, but I don't think it's possible!)





See below...





Goldilocks and the Vamp? Don't tell me Edina wouldn't wear that jacket! If you're off your face, anything will look fabulous sweetie!



Get drunk for some Christmas cheer and insult Saffy. Wear black and pray for some Lacroix or Stella McCartney coming your way. 


Hope you enjoyed this as much as I did :)

Here's a link to the movie trailer by the way.

Thanks for reading sweetie darlings!

xx


Saturday, 30 July 2016

Outfit #3: Start wearing purple

Dia dhuit! (I'm running out of languages to introduce myself in)



"Start wearing purple, wearing purple,
nananana,
start wearing purple for me nooooow,
all your sanity and wits they will all vanish,
I promise,
it's just a matter of time!"


Any Gogol Bordello fans out there? I suggest start wearing purple as excellent background music for this post :)


I don't look too happy here because every picture kept looking horrible (more so than this one haha) so I was a little annoyed by the time this one was taken.



Top   -   H&M
   Skirt   -   Monsoon
                Shoes   -   Penney's (Primark)
Bag   -   Parfois
                   Necklace   -   Bought at a local market 

I love this skirt so much - I found it on sale for 7€ (!!!) instead of 70€. In my size. Clearly, it was meant to be! I wear this outfit combination a lot, especially when it's a little colder, with a nice heavy cardigan, boots and tights. So you'll be seeing this one again :) 


(NB. I didn't quite realise how dirty my shoes looked in this picture until now. Oops.)

This handbag has two straps so you can wear it as a shoulder bag, or a cross-body bag. This was the first item I ever bought at Parfois and after a year of very frequent use it's held up great for the most part. I had to get one of the side zips (see in the first picture) replaced, but other than that, there are no signs of wear and tear. Not bad for 17€!

Here's a close up:


I know the lighting for my outfit pics is quite bad, but here you can see that the bag is in fact a beautiful navy colour, with golden zips.


I apologize for the atrocious picture quality, but today was not my day in the photography department. At least you can see my necklace properly :) I wanted to list a few similar options online, but I've found it difficult to find anything, so here are a few general suggestions for nice, geometric-style necklaces instead:



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And for the last horrible picture of the day: A close-up of my beloved 9€ Penney's shoes. I have worn them (nearly) to death, and really wish I had bought two pairs. Those tiny pink hearts ;)


And to end: A collage of Marie's (Breaking Bad) love for one specific colour... 


(NB. I didn't make this collage, I just googled 'Breaking Bad Marie purple')

Thanks for reading and wear some purple ;)

Kat